I didn’t start blogging because I had everything figured out. I started because I had questions, pain, and a deep desire to help others feel less alone. What began as curiosity in late 2023 has now become something I care deeply about. Here's the full story of how it all began, what kept me going, and why I’m still here.

Why I Started Blogging

🌱 How It All Started

It began sometime around November 2023. I don't even remember exactly how I discovered blogging — maybe through YouTube or reading someone’s blog. What I do remember is how shocked I felt when I realized that all those articles I used to read online were actually written by real people — bloggers — not AI. Until then, I never knew blogging was a thing people actually do.

I think I was searching for online earning options for students when I came across the world of blogging. I wanted to earn my own pocket money, and I had heard one common piece of advice from successful people:

 Learn to manage money early and aim to be financially independent by your 20s or 30s.

So, I started researching:

• What is blogging?
• Can I start as a student?
• How do bloggers earn?
• Is it possible to start for free?

By December 2023, I had made up my mind: I was going to try it.

💔 The Real Reason I Started Blogging

Behind all the curiosity and motivation was a personal story — a painful one.

During my teenage years, something happened that affected my relationship with my family. It was a time filled with pain, loneliness, and unanswered questions. I didn’t have anyone to talk to, and I didn’t even know ChatGPT existed back then. I had only Google, and it wasn’t enough.

So I became my own therapist.

Out of that pain, I began to wonder:

 If I had so many questions and no answers, maybe there are others who feel the same. Maybe I could be the one to help them — like a big sister.

That became the core reason why I started blogging:

💬 To help people who feel unheard, unseen, and confused.

To write about problems no one talks about, in a voice that’s kind and honest.

📝 My First Blog: Lightup

I launched my first blog in December 2023 and named it Lightup — a name that meant “lighting up your life.” My intention was to share thoughts on:

• Self-love
• Self-care
• Self-improvement

But that blog was far from perfect:

• I had no idea about SEO or blog formats
• My writing had grammatical mistakes
• I was just learning by doing

Still, I kept going. Lightup became my training ground.

🔄 Rebranding to Idealife

After a few months, I decided to take blogging more seriously.

I renamed my blog from Lightup to Idealife and promised myself to do better.

I learned about:

1. SEO
2. Keywords
3. Image ALT text
4. Readability and structure

And I stayed consistent — right up until August 2024, even though my exams were approaching. I knew success in blogging takes patience and commitment, and I was ready for that. I found joy in blogging. 

🎓 A Pause for Studies

During my final exams, I paused blogging for 2–3 months and gave my full focus to studies.

That hard work paid off — I topped it — I was the topper of the school.

After exams ended, I was ready to return to blogging. But something unexpected happened.

💔 Losing My Blog

Due to a mistake, I lost access to my blog — the one I had built for almost a year. It felt like losing a part of me. I cried that day.

My blog became orphaned — out of my control, gone. I lost my authority. 

But just 4–5 days later, I started again. The blog you're reading now is the rebirth of my blogging journey.

This time, I told myself:

I will give it my twice best.

 Keeping It a Secret

For a long time, I didn’t tell anyone I was blogging. Eventually, my brother found out. He supported me at times, but sometimes made fun of it too — saying if I had started YouTube instead, I might’ve earned by now.

Even though I felt that too, something deep inside kept pulling me back to blogging.

I still believe I’ll find success — and I’m giving myself two more months to prove it.

📈 Where I Am Now

It’s been 3 months since I restarted this blog, and I’ve stayed consistent. This is month 4, and I believe month 5 will be the breakthrough.

💬 Final Thoughts

I didn’t start blogging to chase trends. I started because I had something real to say — and because someone, somewhere, might need to hear it.

This space is not just a blog.

It’s my voice, my quiet therapy, my small light for others who might be in the dark.

And I’m not giving up.

❓ FAQs

Q. Can you start blogging as a teen with no experience?

Yes. I started with zero knowledge. You just need a voice and a reason — the rest can be learned.

Q. Do you need to know SEO from the beginning?

No. But learning SEO helps your blog reach more people. It’s okay to learn as you go.

Q. How long before you see results from blogging?

Everyone is different, but consistency for at least 6 months is important. I’m in month 4 now and still working toward it.

Q. What’s the hardest part of blogging?

Not giving up when you don’t see results. Especially when you’re writing with your heart.

✅ CTA – What’s Your Blogging Story?

If you’ve ever felt lost, unheard, or unsure, maybe blogging could be your space too.

Start small. Start real.

And if you’re already blogging, I’d love to hear your reason. Drop it in the comments or DM me on Pinterest or Instagram — I’d love to connect.

The Honest Truth: I Was About to Quit Blogging

Blogging has been a part of my life for the past year and a half. I started it to explore new things, learn digital skills, and maybe even become financially independent. It was my way of expressing myself and slowly turning my passion into something meaningful.But recently, I reached a point where I almost gave up.

📚 The Pressure That Comes With Being a Student

Right now, I’m a student — and not just any student. I’m preparing for one of the toughest entrance exams in the world. These two years are crucial for my future. If I get a good rank, half of my life becomes easier. That’s the kind of pressure I’m under.

I’m in college from 8 AM to 5 PM every day. That leaves me very little time to revise, self-study, or even breathe. And yet, I was trying to manage blogging, Pinterest, social media, and studies — all at once. It started to feel like too much.

📱 Gen Z Distractions and Digital Overwhelm

Every time I held my phone, I felt pulled in five different directions:

• Should I watch my lecture recordings?
• Should I post on Pinterest to stay consistent?
• Should I write a blog or reply to comments?
• Or should I follow the latest trends on social media?

As a Gen Z student, it’s hard. Trends move fast. And if you don’t keep up, people — even your own friends — make fun of you. I've been called “too studious” or “too serious” just because I choose to focus. And honestly? That made me feel a bit insecure, even though I’m the topper of my school.

Feeling Like Giving Up? Here’s Why You Should Try Again (And Why I Did Too)

❓ Blogging vs Studies: A Painful Crossroad

I thought I had to choose: Blogging or Studies.

There was a point where I felt blogging was the wrong path. I told myself, “I should focus on just one direction.” And because studies felt more serious and time-bound, I thought of quitting blogging completely.

It wasn’t an easy thought. It hurt. Because blogging wasn’t just a hobby — it was something I believed in, something I built from scratch.

🧠 The Real Reason I Started Blogging

I started blogging not to get famous — but to grow, learn, and become financially independent. I dreamed of earning at least my pocket money from it. I wanted to build a life where I could support myself, even while being a student.

And I didn’t want to walk away from that dream just because it got hard.

🔄 The Shift: A New Decision That Changed Everything

After many days of overthinking, overanalyzing, and feeling lost… I made a decision.

I told myself:

“I will give blogging my 100% — for the next two months. I will pour all my creativity, effort, and consistency into it. And then, I’ll see if it works. If it doesn’t, I’ll accept it and move on — knowing I truly tried.”

This decision gave me peace. It gave me purpose. It gave me clarity.

💪 Why I’m Choosing to Try Again Instead of Quitting

So many people quit just before success. That thought hit me hard. What if I’m closer than I think? What if all I need is a little more belief, a little more time, and a lot more effort?

I don’t want to regret giving up too soon. That’s why, instead of quitting, I’m choosing to try again — one last time, but with everything I’ve got.

📅 What My Plan Looks Like Now

For the next 2 months:

• Blogging is my #1 priority
• I’ll be consistent on Pinterest and blog updates
• I’ll batch my study hours with more focus and less stress
• I’ll minimize distractions and follow a simple content plan
• I’ll stop overthinking and just enjoy the process

This is not about overnight success — it’s about giving myself a fair chance.

💬 To Anyone Thinking of Quitting: This Is for You

If you're thinking of quitting something you care about… I get it.

I’ve been there.

But maybe, just maybe, you owe yourself one more try.

Not a tired, doubtful try — but a bold, focused one.

Give your dream a real shot. You might surprise yourself.

🔁 If It Doesn’t Work Out — That’s Okay Too

I’ve accepted that this might not go as planned. And if it doesn’t work, maybe it’s because God has something even better for me. But at least I’ll walk away proud, knowing I gave my best.

Trying again is not failure — it’s self-respect.

🧠 What I’ve Learned From Almost Giving Up

1. Taking a break is better than quitting
2. People may not understand your path — and that’s okay
3. The world respects consistency more than talent
4. Sometimes you don’t need a new plan, you just need new energy
5. You are allowed to protect your passion and still chase your future

❓FAQs

Q1: How do I know if I should give up or try again?

If you still think about it, care about it, or wonder “what if”… then try again. Give yourself closure through action.

Q2: Can I balance studies and blogging?

Yes, if you’re realistic, disciplined, and patient. It’s about managing your energy, not just time.

Q3: What if I fail after trying again?

Failure doesn’t mean it was a waste. It means you were brave enough to believe in yourself. That’s growth.

Q4: Is it okay to step away for a while?

Yes. Pausing isn’t quitting. Sometimes a break gives you the clarity you need to return stronger.

📣 Call-To-Action

💬 Have you ever felt like quitting something that once meant everything to you?

Let me know in the comments — or share this post with someone who’s on the edge of giving up.

And if you needed a sign… this is it.

Try again — just once more. With everything you’ve got. 💫

THANKYOU FOR VISITING 🤍